Have you organized something special for Valentine’s day?
If you do, pay attention and read this article!
We have collected real life stories and we have extrapolated a Decalogue:
What to do and what absolutely not, during a date …
1°: Is it the first date? YOU HAVE TO PAY!
Is she a strong, confident and indipendent woman?
No matter, you have to pay.
It’s not essential to go to the most expensive restaurant of the city, you can go out just for a pizza!
But if you want to make a good first impression: PAY!
2°: GIVE HER ATTENTION!
Ask her something of her life, keep the eye contact and let her talk.
It isn’t your own show, you have to be focused on her!
3°: GIVE HER SOME ADVICE ON HOW TO WEAR
Every girl hates being dressed too fancy if you take her to the movies or to the pizzeria, but she also gonna hate being dressed too casual at an elegant restaurant!
She needs to know where you will go for the date, she needs to choose the perfect outfit for feeling confident.
But be careful: don’t spoil too.
You also have to surprise her!
4°: PAY ATTENTION TO NON-VERBAL LANGUAGE
You have to observe her! Her eyes, her way to gesticulate…
About 80% of the information about a person is non-verbal, so it’s better to observ with attention.
If the girl of your date, is watching you in your eyes, in silence, with a shy smile… what are you waiting for? Kiss her!
Or if she escapes from the phisical and eye contact… no way, you have to be patient and wait for a better moment!
5°: YOU DON’T HAVE TO BE FORCEDLY THE “FUNNY GUY”
A dispassional advice: just be what you are!
The girls don’t like when a guy tries to make funny in a forced way, often with embarrassing jokes.
It results weird and awkward!
You have surely other arrows to your bow, just be yourself!
6°: BE A GENTLEMAN
Every girl appreciates when a boy gives her the typical attentions of the gentlemens.
Unfortunately it is a rare thing… but it can be an advantage.
You will be definitely different from all her ex boyfriends, in a positive way of course!
Be on time, open the doors …
Those little things will makes the difference in your date!
7°: YOU MUST HAVE A PRECISE IDEA ABOUT WHERE YOU’LL BRING HER FOR THE DATE!
Book the restaurant, or check the movie’s timetable…
Don’t be unprepared!
A man with a confident and organized attitude is undoubtedly very sexy for the girls!
8°: BE ROMANTIC
Come on! Is Valentine’s Day… this is the right moment to be a little ‘bit romantic and passionate!
One advice: avoid the cliches and don’t be sickly sweet.
9°: WHEN THE DATE IS OVER, BRING BACK HER AT THE DOOR
Nobody does that anymore, but every girl will appreciate it.
It is a kind and romantic thing to do, as a gentlemen should do!
And it is also the right moment if you want to kiss her…
10°: YOU CAN’T HURRY LOVE
How a famous song saids, you have to wait for the right moment and you have also to respect the times of the other person.
Don’t be hurry, everything will come in the right time!